NOGG was born one day after my daughter was invited to a birthday party at a kids' spa. The whole experience was glitter, makeup, and sparkle. At the end, they dressed all the girls in pink tutus for a mini catwalk, where each one shared her favorite color and what she wanted to be when she grew up. It was a drop-off party. When I came back to pick up my daughter, the catwalk was underwayâand only she and another girl werenât wearing the tutu, didnât have makeup on, and hadnât gotten their hair done.